I often say that anyone could potentially become disabled. Five years ago, if someone had told me I would be in this position, I wouldn’t believe it, but here I am. Through my experience, I have gained a deeper understanding of the challenges that visually impaired individuals face.

Many blind people in Nigeria are confined to their homes by their families, treated almost like furniture, and merely kept alive.

Most lack the capacity to care for themselves, which is where my situation differs. I have the education and ability to be a blessing to others, even in my current condition.

It’s not always about money, as I don’t have much. However, I do have friends who help. When I receive assistance, I share it with other visually impaired people, as some lack the means to break barriers or open doors for themselves.

I recommend visiting government hospitals and clinics. The crowds you encounter there reflect the state of our health facilities.

When I was visiting a government health institution for treatment, I noticed that the number of patients was overwhelming, while the number of doctors was minimal, and they were overworked.

It took me three months to see a glaucoma consultant only once or twice because he was the only one available.

My advice is to never allow anyone to look down on you. First, you must accept yourself as you are. I am on the verge of registering a non-governmental organisation at the Corporate Affairs Commission that will solely focus on those who are visually impaired.

This organisation will address education, intervention in visual tools, and ICT. Those are my visions-to empower the visually impaired to become independent and manage their own lives. I understand the challenges they face.

Looking back, are there any lessons or philosophies you adopted that have helped in your journey?

Losing my sight has changed my perspective on life in many ways. First, I learned that there are things in life you cannot control. Second, our government is not doing enough to support visually impaired individuals or improve the country’s health situation.

The cost of healthcare is astronomical, and average Nigerians can’t afford it. I use five different eye drops, and the least expensive one costs around 8,000 Naira. I have noticed that about three out of 10 Nigerians have some form of visual impairment, often due to poor access to quality healthcare.

I am a Christian, and I believe in the prayer that says, “Goodness and mercy shall follow us all the days of our lives.”

Goodness and mercy are like currency; you save them by how you treat others and help those in need.

When challenges arise, you can draw on those reserves. I have experienced this firsthand. Despite my challenges, there has never been a day I was left hungry because people came to my aid, and I believe it’s because of the goodwill I accumulated over time.

To the younger generation, especially men, when you’re young and financially independent, take care of your family, including your wife and children.

Show them love, because you don’t know what the future holds. My family has been my pillar. I’ve also learned to manage my expectations of others. Before my challenges, I used to get upset when people disappointed me, but now, I am no longer bothered by such things.

Your first daughter recently graduated as a medical doctor. How does that make you feel?

I should mention that I am a father of many children. I have two biological children, along with several foster children. Despite my own challenges, I have been able to train my children morally.

I also have the account details of many children in school, whom I support financially with whatever I can, and this gives me joy.

Yes, my first daughter recently graduated as a medical doctor, and I am very proud of her.

However, her journey also exposed some critical problems in our health system, particularly the lack of manpower.

Medical students spend around eight years in training, including housemanship and NYSC service, totalling nearly 10 years, only to earn less than N300,000. Meanwhile, politicians earn exorbitant salaries. How can we expect our doctors not to leave the country under these conditions? Until we properly remunerate essential professionals, we are only deceiving ourselves.

Adversity will always come; it’s a part of life. Those who face challenges aren’t any less close to God than those who don’t.

It’s not the adversity that defines you but how you react to it. For those who lose their sight later in life, like I did, it’s particularly hard because you are acutely aware of what you’ve lost. But it’s not the end of the world. You just need to retool yourself, learn new skills, and adapt.

What are you grateful for?

I am grateful for many things, especially the gift of life and the provisions from God. In my community, I’m not treated as visually impaired. I contribute to discussions and share my opinions just like anyone else.

Technology has made life easier, with tools and resources available to help. I have taught myself how to use computers and voice prompts. Retooling yourself is key.

Challenges can also serve as a way for God to reveal things we may have overlooked in the hustle of life. I’ve discovered aspects of myself—both strengths and weaknesses—that I didn’t know before.

I now appreciate people and friendships more. Most of the people we call friends are often just acquaintances, but through challenges, you learn who your true friends are.

My advice to anyone facing similar challenges is to avoid indulging in self-pity. You will experience emotional turbulence, but it’s crucial to create a routine that keeps you engaged.

I’ve developed my strategies to combat loneliness. I spend time reading, walking, and staying active. Walking, in particular, helps fight depression.

It’s important to engage in activities that bring you joy and keep you mentally and physically fit.

Is there any kind of support that should be given to people who are physically challenged?

As for support, there isn’t much provided by the government. Lagos State has some programmes for the visually impaired, but they are minimal. The government is not living up to its promises, whether for the disabled or for women’s representation.

You have to rely on yourself for support because there is little to nothing coming from the authorities.

People may show you love and offer the little help they can, but the government isn’t addressing the situation.

I expect that there will be grants for visually challenged individuals who want to start businesses. In terms of education, the only support available to the visually impaired comes from private individuals.

While there are vocational schools for the blind, such as the one in Oshodi, they are privately owned.

When it comes to higher education, do institutions have adequate facilities for the physically challenged? There is so much support the government could provide, yet they have failed to assist those who can speak, let alone the disabled.

That is why I want to work on my NGO. This endeavour will bring me joy and fulfilment.

Although I am not rich and currently don’t have a job, my situation is still much better than that of many visually impaired individuals.